Happily Ever After is not a fairy tale

It’s a choice.

Stop falling for their potential.

You know, if they were gonna change, level up and become what you have been hoping for it would have happened by now, don’t you? I know, you’ve been hoping for so long, you don’t want to give up, but girl, do you still wanna be hoping in another 10 years? Do you wanna wake up and realise you are still in the exact same position a decade from now?

You see the best in people. Your empathetic nature wants to support and fix people. Someone who needs that is attractive to you but it also makes you blind to the red flags. When you are looking out for and caring for him, you are missing all the warning signs that everyone around you can see loud and clear. You want what you’re hoping for to be true and you create that truth in your head but you need to deal with the facts.

You cant help to fix anyone who doesn’t wanna be fixed. More love isn’t gonna do it. He has to take responsibility for his own journey. Walking away from someone who needs help is the hardest thing for you to do, I know. Its not in your nature and that is exactly why you have hung on so tightly, for so long but once you are out of the thick of it, I promise you will see more clearly how much of yourself you are giving away for something that will never be what you want.

If you stopped working so hard to fix everything, what do you think would happen? honestly? If the answer is nothing, then doesn’t that tell you a lot? Isn’t this all very one sided? Is he fighting for this as much as you are?

Yes, he maybe a “good” man but that doesn’t mean he is the man for you. You are growing, developing, working on yourself. You need someone working alongside you with the same self love and zest for life. You deserve someone supportive and willing to fight for you and what you have, work with you and on themselves. Stop allowing someone to give you less than you deserve.

Create space for someone who deserves you, to come and find you. You’re heart is holding so much space for someone who is not claiming it and there is no room for anything else right now.

You are worthy of a great love story.

Make space for a happy ending….