Let go of the outcome

Just let go.

Take a deep breath, release it slowly and make a decision to no longer be attached to the outcome.

Can you control what happens? No. So despite the fact that you know how you want this to turn out, you cannot make that happen. There are too many variables. Other people involved that have their own feelings, actions and points of view.

So if you cant control how it plays out. What is the point of the anxiety and worry you are putting yourself through right now? Because it is you that is causing the knot in your chest, you know? The tears you are crying because you are scared, the sadness you feel for what could be and the nights you lay awake playing out possibilities in your head, are all a choice you are making. It’s not the situation. Its the way you are CHOOSING to react to the situation. Its time to choose to let go.

When you finally let go and give it up to the universe, you will give yourself the gift of peace. When you stop trying to control and truly just trust that what will happen is for the best, then you can just be an observer and watch. Slowly untether your mind from the future you have created within it. You cannot predict, force or persuade life to follow that path. Have faith in yourself, your strength, resilience and determination. Whatever happens KNOW you will deal with it, like you always do.

No, I know it doesn’t feel like it now. Now you feel alone, unsure, apprehensive, those tears and that ache in your heart are all consuming. Deep down though, you know, you know you will get through it.

Watch how life always has a way of figuring itself out. What happens right now may seem scary or painful but 6 months down the line you will see it made way for happiness and opportunities you never knew were possible.

So girl, trust the universe.

Trust the process.

Breath.

And let go…..

Bob Marley – Three Little Birds